Believe Big. The size of your success is determined by the size of your belief. Think little goals and expect little achievements.
- David J. Schwartz
It's a true quotation used by David J. Schwartz. Unless we will not think we'll not be able to do anything in life. Think and act before it's too late. We often look into other's progress and compliment them. But somewhere
inside us, we are not happy because we are not like them. We often ask ourselves I wish I could have taken the right decision? Later we curse the time and compromise according to the situation. Let me ask you one thing, "Is there a specific time to start our journey for success?"Let me tell you one thing that there is no specific time or right time to start a right thing. We delay it because of too much thinking. If you want to become successful in life, if you want to grow bigger then don't think just act on it. You have already taken the first step by thinking about your dream. Now take the next step by creating the plan for it. Thinking will only help you if you want to do better in life. It will help you discover new ways to reach your goal.
Why do we need to think twice or thrice about our decision? Too much time on thinking shows that you are not confident about yourself. You are not capable to take the risk. My friends, use the power of thinking in a better way. I never used to believe in these flowery statements. But as I always say that I write these articles from the real instances of my life. I used to be a person who used to think too much. I used to dream a lot. In other words, I was a daydreamer. I used to imagine and think a lot but never used to focus on one goal. I was abruptly using the power of thinking. Sometimes, I used to think I should make my career in singing, sometimes in acting, sometimes in the cooking business, sometimes becoming rich, etc, etc. But I couldn't achieve a single one. Do you want to know why?
Let's break the ice. If I take too many things on my plate while eating at a party, will I be able to enjoy the taste of all the food? No, not at all. Because all food will get mixed up and flavors will be mixed too. On the other hand, if I eat one item at a time I will enjoy the taste of all food items and the food will not go to waste.
Here's another example from our day-to-day life. Can we expect a working woman to be an expert on all front like cooking, managing the home, managing kids everything? No. She is also a human being. She can be good but not perfect in everything. She will be perfect in 1-2 things.
If we think about too many things at a time our brain will get exhausted and will be completely confused. Our thinking power will not be able to send an exact message to our brain as It will be confused too. Now logically if we have too many things we will never be able to prioritize and the universe will also get confused. You may ask now from where Universe came into the picture?
There is a famous phrase if you think about one specific thing day n night, there will be a few unseen forces or vibes that will slowly and gradually start working for you. You will see the clear road to reach your destination because you have been thinking about your destiny day and night and were working towards it.
Nowadays buying a car is not a big deal. You go to a showroom finalize the car and take it as there is a bank finance facility available. When I bought my first car I just decided that I want to buy a car. I have been dreaming about it for a long time. I used to go to the showrooms to inquire about cars of my price range. Believe it or not, but within a week I took the delivery of my car. It was December 2012, I went with my mother to take the delivery. I was so crazy about it that I learned to drive with my friends in advance so that I would drive it back home. That is when I realized the power of thinking.
Let's understand the entire process of it. When we think about our dream we need to ensure that we start living our dream every time. It doesn't mean that we should forget other tasks. If we want to become rich start thinking like rich people. Start behaving like them. Every day just keep telling you that you have achieved your dream and you are rich and growing every day. Slowly you will see the change in you. You will see new ways are opening for you to become rich. Why will it happen? The answer is because you have started living your dream.
The day you'll start living your dream no one will be able to stop you to become successful.
Let's do a small exercise to witness the power of thinking. Are you guys ready for it?
Great. Let's do it then.
- The first step, write one thing that you want to achieve within a month on a sticky note. Let's assume that I want to work on my appearance. I want to groom my outlook in terms of dressing, in terms of carrying myself at work, etc.
- The second step, make many copies of it and paste them in places or stuff you use most. For example, your wallet, your cupboard, your washroom, your kitchen.
- The third step, prepare a plan of dos and don'ts for it. For example, you'll stop eating oily stuff and will start eating fruits that will bring a glow on your face and improve your health too.
- The fourth step, start thinking and feeling that you've achieved this level. There has been a huge change in your appearance and people are complimenting you.
The last step is important because if you will not believe in yourself this remedy won't work.
Additionally, you need to follow the to-do list every day that you created in the third step.
This is very important. I can assure you that you'll see the change.
Let me tell you the logic and science behind it. When we start thinking about one particular thing day and night, our brain sends the message to all parts of the body. You know that brain controls the entire body. The brain has two parts conscious and sub-conscious. This message will be stored in our brain we will keep getting the reminder every moment because we've pasted the copies everywhere. It means, that we will be more conscious now. We'll start looking at ourselves regarding our appearance. We may start spending some amount on us by purchasing a good dress, by visiting a stylist hairdresser. You see, things will start making their way and you'll start valuing it.
Now tell me, do you think you'll fail? You will not be able to achieve your dream. I can bet on it, you'll.
When I decided to start my blog, I thought what would I write? I always wanted to write something on my own. I could have created a blog for writing reviews about products, places, etc. But I opted for this because I want to become a writer. I'm leaving this dream every day that you all are reading my articles every day and wait for my next article. I have become a part of your life. You always wait to check my posts on social media like Twitter, Facebook, Instagram, Pinterest, etc to see what new has been posted by me. This gives me an instinct that if I'll not write anything today you all will miss something.
All my articles are new, different than the previous one. As a writer, motivator, a blogger I need to think to open my mind. I need to re-collect all my memories and then I will be able to write an article for you which you will be able to relate to your own life.
If I would not have thought about it, I would have never got the idea about starting my blog. I started with one but now, I've 3 blogs in total. One where I write Hindi articles, one where I post daily quotes again my creation. All this is happening because I have started living my dream. I don't think that I will. I think I'm already there.
I hope you'll find this article very interesting and will follow the steps I've asked you to follow.
Because
Always think big. Then only you will become big.
All the best!
Regards,
Moloy
(To read in Hindi, click here)
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